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Old Oct 25, 2011, 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Readytostop View Post
For instance, I have this cycle that goes on... I start to feel emotionally close to my T. ...then I have extreme feelings of fear of abandonment.... then I start to fight those feelings and talk about quitting.... I have done this three times now...
I don't know if this is transference or not, but it happens to me all them time.

I idealise the relationship (and the therapist) and then get disappointed.
I feel this as rejection and abandonment.