i dont think T should ever be angry with you either, disappointed maybe but not angry. And yes, I can see T being having reason to be disappointed about all those things. When it comes to not following advice and seeking comfort elsewhere, I understand what you are saying and I agree we have the right to do that and T shouldnt be upset, but I can see how Ts may be upset. I am going thru this with my own T right now. His whole demeanor toward me has changed and he says there is no reason to see me as much because I am working some with my pdoc on my anxiety. His behavior is telling me that he is upset by this and I feel he has no right to be responding the way he is. I feel he is being childish. So yeah, I agree with your statement that T doesnt have a right to be taking it out on me because he is upset that I sought advice from another caregiver.