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Old Oct 25, 2011, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted by stormyangels View Post
I think as a T one could easily get upset/angry when one doesn't follow the advice. For someone to continue to come back to you, want your time and expertise, then go against the advice (for me it has to be a rather consistent going against what I suggest) that puts us in the place of like - well, then what's the point of you coming if I say to do "A" and you do "V"?
That is the human reaction, but is it professional?

And it's not like I never do what she says. But this time I got advice from another source (my wife, as it happens) that I thought would work better. And I am very satisfied with the outcome.