Narcissists are manipulative and controlling. Plain & simple. I was married to one & he was a horrible person. He tried to control every single aspect and person in his life. He usually ended up losing in the end.

It has nothing to do with you. Don't feel guilty. I promise you there will come a day when you are just DONE with him and you'll move on without looking back. It will be like a lightning bolt hitting you. Really. Hang in there.