CantExplain, do you have children? Can you imagine having a teenage son, for example, who is messing with drugs? Every time he pulls himself up out of it you will be so happy for him; every time he puts himself in the way of falling into it again (hanging out with bad company, or in places where the opportunity presents), you will feel the danger he risks, and it will cause fear in you for his safety and well being, and you may certainly get angry at his taking the risks; the anger is only the top emotion, the fear for his safety, and yes, love for him, are the ones that are beneath it.