Vibe.. you might have a good point with the "folks having different" boundries.. And I agree, it is not something to "fight" over. Just ask her not to do it again.

As for the drugs.. She was addicted to pain killers, a prescription drug. A few months ago, AJ broke up with her because of the pills, giving her a choice to either get help to get off the pills or end the relationship.. AJ is soo anti-drug. He has lost several friends to drugs and he just doesn't want it in his life.. So she went to another doctor and is under a doctor's care to help her come off the pain killers. She has been doing great. Guess it is two months she has been "clean". She even looks better....