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Originally Posted by porcupine2
I am not sure how to handle this feeling of being totally offended and sick of others wanting something from me. I don't understand it. I would never even think of asking of others what others are asking of me. No wonder I don't want to crawl out of my hole. If I say yes I'm enabling and if I say no I'm a selfish beotch.
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This certainly sounds like a place I have been.(and was there for a very long time.) I believe I have moved far enough away to say I'm not there anymore. Then, again, maybe I just haven't been real seriously tested in awhile. I am thinking that, prior to the next real test, it might be wise to get a T-shirt printed with the word BEOTCH in bold letters across the chest. Maybe, I should order 10 in different bright colors. Purpose: Mainly to remind ME of what is the better option of the two you mention above.
On the back, it will read: NEED HELP? JUST CALL: 1-800-DONTASK
or
1-800-NOIWONT
