{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Tomi}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I feel so bad I can't be more help. As I've told you before, I'm a complete commitment-phobe and avoid relationships at all costs, so I'm not much good at this kind of stuff.
I just hope for your sake the jerk gets out ASAP and you can get on with your life and go get your dog!! Dogs are infinitely better than men, anyway.
Holler if you need me.
Love, Candy