VERY interesting:
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Originally Posted by ariesmars
the parents! they are perfect, they dont do anything wrong, they are always right, they dont have any mental illness or issues, if something goes wrong, its MY FAULT! its always my fault!! im the loser!
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Are your parents imposing a
fantasy on you, a
fantasy of their own perfection that requires you to be the "loser" in the family? Do they
need to see you as a "loser" in order
to ignore their own real imperfections?
The Ariesmars I know is no loser! May you have the strength to not sacrifice yourself to other people's fantasies.
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My dog
mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.