I think the most telling remark you made in your story was this:

" He only has to raise his voice and i back down from anything i want to say. "

If you are afraid of him, then it's just as well you are visiting relatives for a few months. To me, it sounds as if he is drifting away, and making sure you think it is your fault. In my opinion, you have done nothing wrong, and he is way out of line with his closed attitude towards you.

I hope you receive the support and compassion you need from your family wherever they are. This is not a "man" thing, I think it's an insensitive, uncaring thing. Take care of yourself.