I don't think so but my H thinks I do. He thinks I make my therapy into a soap opera on purpose. He doesn't know anything about psychology, but sometimes he gets it a little bit right. I don't know how we can create trauma, though. I thought trauma is something that happens TO us by someone else. We can cloud issues and create diversions, which is what my H is hinting at, and make everything more intense and complicated than it is, but that's not trauma, at least by my understanding.