I can't say all I want to say here, due to the restrictions of this forum. But, I believe it's not the least bit selfish to pray for ourselves. We all matter. And we all have problems. Even if what we pray doesn't turn out the way we want, I think it's even psychologically healthy. (Okay, I will shut up about THAT!) Also, even if we pray, we still should try to help ourselves, too. I can pray for a husband (just an example), but I shouldn't expect a knock at the door and Prince Charming to appear. I need to get out and make myself available!

Please, dear one, you ARE important!