Oh, and I love going into the chat rooms when I have some time! For sure no one in the Designated and Support chat rooms will judge you. Those rooms are there for good reason and the Chat room leaders are great and make certain everyone feels welcome.
I spend more of my time in the open-topic rooms - and I did feel nervous at first. But if you go in and say "Hi All" I bet you'll find out we are just all regular people who have issues, but like the connections.