I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I hate that when you told your husband he accused you of cheating! He obviously doesn't trust you and it's terrible that you had to find out this way.

I don't really know what to say other than stay strong. If he cannot be comforting during this time and, instead, makes the situation worse than he isn't deserving of you. You deserve to be treated with respect. Are you considering pressing charges?