
Oct 27, 2011, 05:45 PM
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Member Since: Jun 2007
Location: Chicago, Illinois
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I also think it's silly of him to blame you. The fact that you told him shows you are not trying to hide anything from him. He can't expect you to sit home alone every night, and a night out knitting or quilting with the girls can only go so far. 
I understand Jake is much bigger than you, but there are ways to handle men like that - especially if he is your husband's friend. In the future, if ANY guy hits on you at a vulnerable time - first tell them NO. If they don't take no for an answer, tell them your husband knows where you are and who you are with - and he'll be REALLY MAD if anything happens to you. That used to work for me.
Good luck smoothing things over with your husband.
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