3rdtimes, I appreciate your apology, but it's not necessary. It certainly didn't offend me, and I think it may have actually made me feel a little supported because you felt strongly enough to speak the way you did. I appreciate your input and you are entitled to your opinion.

I guess deep down I want to think my T didn't mean it the way I heard it, and I want to give her a chance to explain that. Not for her, but for me, because if I don't give her that opportunity then I will wonder forever, and I will also carry those words around with me. If she can explain, somehow take back that statement, then I know I will feel better in the long run.