My t is wanting me to get help for my ed which I don't think is a problem right now. I have been maintaining my weight and eating fairly well on most days. How is that bad? I was pretty much told that if I don't start eating better, t was going to put me inpatient. I really don't want to go inpatient or even do any type of hospitalization because I am trying to do my job which requires me to be available during the day. I just don't see why t and her supervisor are now so worried about my weight. I know I am boarderline underweight, but I am still in the 'safe' range. I don't know how a hospital would even take me because I am not underweight. I am really frustrated and confused about it. I don't know what to do besides get defensive which really won't get me much of anywhere. I suppose I could gather information and counter them with it. I really don't want to be forced inpatient. I have a child that I have to take care of and if I was inpatient then that makes for a big complicated mess of having to involve people who really don't need to be involved (ex-in-laws). It also means another lecture of "why didn't you come to us before this was an issue." I am 30yrs old and my own person. I am not an invalid who cannot care for themselves. Nor am I not able to make my own decisions. I am mentally stable and can decide for myself what is best.