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Oct 28, 2011, 08:25 AM
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Member Since: Jun 2007
Location: Chicago, Illinois
Posts: 5,518
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(((Ygrec))) Your devotion and love for your wife is refreshing. It appears to me your wife needs to take a step back and remember her vows - i.e., in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer. She had to have known you weren't the Hallmark romantic type when she met you, fell in love, and married you. Isn't it enough for her to know you love her? If you can love her for who she is, warts and all - why can't she feel the same way about you?
So life didn't turn out for her the way she thought it would. That's just how life goes sometimes - through no fault of our own. She needs to remember you are not only her husband, you are her best friend - and best friends don't get all thunder and brimstone with each other.
I hope your T will help her to understand you better. 
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