Can I ask how in you're own way you have been able to move past the resentment against him? I'm separated and so angry with my husband for a plethora of reasons; and angry with myself for him not respecting standard boundaries, & me putting up with it. I'm so happy you have moved forward, I know time and therapy (for me) is easing the anger; but I have alot of contempt I need to rid myself of; any advice is much appreciated!!