Good point, CantExplain! I think you're right, in that some things that depend on perspective. I see myself as 'overweight', and see that as a bad thing, but perhaps others do not. Maybe I need to learn to accept myself more.

Loyal, yes. Generous? Well, I'm not selfish... I'd give more if I had more to give, you know?

Thanks for your feedback, I'm still keeping notes on this