Ok.. I just got married like 4 months ago. My husband knows I have problems but does not want to face it. When I tell him about my ADD and Depression and anxiety, he says I am fine and nothing is wrong. But we constantly get into arguements. He says I don't listen to him and interrupt him all the time, I tell him I do not mean to and it is a symptom of ADD. Then he will say other things about how I keep dwelling on the past, which comes my depression and anxiety. I tell him these things and he get even angrier. I tell him I am not trying to make excuses but it seems that it is not getting any better. There were two times within the 4 months that he has packed his bags and threatened to leave,,, and since then, I dont feel stable or secrure in our marriage and he thinks I should just get over it because he says he will not threaten to leave me again... (but that is what he said the first time he packed his bags)... I tell him we need counseling but he refuses.... I am so hurt and it seems no matter how hard I try, i just can't get over the sight of the bedroom with his bags packed and how he said he wad leaving.. I hate this feeling and since our relationship is not secure (at least I dont think it is), the meds that I am taking is not working as well as they use to when I was not under so much stress and fear. I dont know if I should ask my doc to raise my meds or just go see a counselor without him.. but then again we dont have money for that and he will be very upset if I go.. So i dont know what to do...