I think Sleeps is on the right track.
Like I think someone said before, there is nothing wrong or shameful about needing attention.
But, part of getting healthier is aiming to give up on negative coping mechanisms (which are sometimes also pleas for attention?) like SI... and so T's often don't give much attention to people telling them about SI between sessions. Maybe write a letter to her and say how you need her care and attention and how you are hurt and disappointed, and give it to her the next time you see her?
I am sorry you are in pain... please keep posting....

Take care of you,
Fuzzy