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Originally Posted by stumpy
just wanted to throw something into the mix..last week when unhappyguy posted that he thought his t was taping him without his consent everyone got all upset..."oh the horror"..the nerve, etc...the t was wrong...
but now..it's ok for a client to do so without the t's consent?
wow...a slippery slope we live on here at pc...just sayin'
me..i have no need to tape my t. i trust her. she makes a mistake she fesses up to it. i make one i do too. my crappy first t didn't. screwed me up big time. took me a while but i learned to trust my t i have now & i moved on...i just think in all walks of like you come across people who are jerks & who mess with your psyche & try to hurt you. sometimes they do. you hurt, then heal & move on. i try to treat people the way i want to be treated & feel sorry for those others. life's to short to get caught up in a he said, she said battle.
because really..even if you go back & prove to this t she was wrong..what will you gain...you aren't ever going to get an apology from her...
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First - taping without permission was not the initial aim of this thread. As far as mine go, they (I have now asked both) do not care one way or the other. But there is a huge power differential in a client taping t from t taping client. T's can cause more damage to clients than vice versa. That is why I saw the horror in a t taping without permission. They need to be transparent. EVen if you do not get an apology, you get peace of mind in knowing that you are not the one who was wrong.