Bingo. I think this is a key point - or at least it is for me. One of my goals for therapy is to understand myself well enough, and be at peace with myself enough to focus my attention on others and the world around me.

Soup - It sounds like you're having some major insights, and it's exciting, isn't it? Hope you can hang onto this until Tuesday! I know you can - it can't be undone. Sending good thoughts your way.