I am getting married in March. I have a great job and no debt and my fiance who I love very much lost his job this week and pays about 400 to various credit cards each month. I love him and we have joined accounts so that it is our debt but of course there is a little resentment with this. Especially since he lost his job. I love him very much but he just can't seem to find his career path. I can't leave him because of that. Our love is bigger than that. This is a tiny setback in a life we have planned together. I feel depresesd for him not to mention the self esteem issues he is facing because of this.