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First you have to like yourself...and feel that you are a whole person without some guy. Sometimes that takes a while, a long while.You have to decide to work on yourself. I found that when I stopped being in a relationship I had to own up to things I used to blame the other person for. I had to stop finding my happiness in someone else and expecting them to make me happy. I had to own up to mistakes that I would blame on the other person..."like if it was not for them I would not have done this!"
When you have found the "you", you will find that you are great company. No magic answers again...just hard work to discover who you are!!
Hugs;
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Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
"And psychology has once again proved itself the doofus of the sciences" Sheldon Cooper 
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