WOW... We learn something new every day but yet we forget why we are here.... This is the message of Love.... If you don't like the person whom you are with then my advice to you is move on or choose to change the aspects of yourselfs in order to flow more easily in your relationship and your spouce to do the same this way the both of you can live more in a flowing mediumship with one another. Just a message from someone who cares. Warm Regards of Love... F.