Hello There,

How can you tell if someone is lying to you about having DID??? My partner says that she has this disorder but I just don't see anything different in her myself. About a year ago she and I was doing some imaginary play to spice up our love life and she took it way out there to the 5th dimension so to speak saying that this person was really astral projecting in her body but she didn't do her homework on her. I caught her in her lies while she was doing it. She got into a fight with her friend and we were in here while she was on the bed crying and she was saying she was a pathological liar and I said No I think you might have DID because I done some research on it from going to school to be a psychologist and she said Yes this is what I have and I have been lying to you for the past 9 years Sorry. It sounded like to me she was pulling my chain. Just going along with what i said so that I wouldn't catch her in her other lie. I got fed up with it myself so it went on for a year with her and I of this alter reality of sorts that she said she was and got me all screwed up inside. My daughter even seen things that one minute she was this person and she forgot there names and mixed them up or whatever. It was a mess. She has always done drugs and I think she has an addiction to Meth is all and there is nothing wrong with her except that. No alters she has. She is just her. I see no difference in her personality except for that messed up year of her trying to screw with me then back to work again. I however had to go to a conselor after that crap. Our relationship has always been wierd and she can be controling to a point as well so is this her manipulating me to think that she has this for a blame or victim thing that ways she don't have to take the blame for anything in her life. Look at what she has done to me and how things has happened inside. This is what I say to myself. I am just asking other people what I should be looking for and what their opinions are on the matter this is all. She even tells me I have this and I tell her I don't. If I do I don't view me any other way but normal ole' Jessica. I feel something is out of order this is all and I am being played as a whole and I don't like that. My mother manipulated me and I don't want the same thing to happen in my relationship but I fear that is already has. I am done typing now. Love and light to all and sorry for the confusion here. Jessica