I'm doing FINE, now! (And did you say you had a full cart of food...?) I think self-awareness is more important than size or number of personal issues, per se? I would prefer a flawed but introspective mate to a shiny robot. You are charming and well-spoken. I mentioned once to a previous T that my girlfriend dictated to her husband what vitamins to take etc like he was a guinea pig. My male T said, some guys like that kind of attention - I think he was one of those kind! So while "some" women may find you clingy, others may find you companionable. But as Canadian comedian slash handyman Red Green says, if the women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy!