I dont know what has happened between my husband and I. I cant put my finger on when things shifted. I have removed myself from my family through obsessing on my work staying there ungodly hours, and retreating into my home office and "working" online when I am here. When my husband and I try to talk about things. My response is always...You dont care about me and my life, or you dont love me anymore. I am afraid I may be projecting my own feelings onto him to rationalize my anger. I am not sure how I feel about him. We have been married 9 years. We have two childrem 11 and 8. I am so unhappy. I feel so empty. Is it selfish for me to leave to find myself and my hapiness? Will my children be OK? If it is selfish, is that wrong? Is it wrong to live my life in whatever way will make me happy?