Hi, this is my first post. I might feel like your sister. My wife has ED, and certainly I love her. But I am also fighting with her about food, sometimes I am cooking and she hates me. mmmm I want to speak out so many things, that I can't write in order. Sorry. I am feeling guilty, because I am thinking to leave her, but I know she is sick. But, ... she says is doing her best. But she refuse any advise from professional staff, she says she know the way,...really? I am scared about my own feelings. I am scared to stop loving her.