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Old Oct 30, 2011, 07:03 PM
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Originally Posted by CantExplain View Post


In the society where I live, no one can be offended if you bring them flowers. They are so wonderfully useless they can't be considered a bribe or charity.

If it is unethical for T to accept flowers, I think that is very silly.

Why not ask?

I'm not saying she would be offended. I think she would be touched. But I also believe it might cross ethical lines. And I don't want to face any kind of rejection of a gift like that. I think I'll stick to poetry. It has no value.

Silly? Well, maybe. But I do understand their dilemma in accepting gifts and how that might be problematic. I DID bring her a photo of a flower - does that count? a very small unframed photo