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Old Oct 30, 2011, 07:12 PM
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One of the best ways to honor your T is to tell them how much they have helped you. You don't have to go into details, but to say something like "I'm a better person today ..." or "Because of you I am managing so much better"...etc.

Someone who isn't quite to that point yet can make an agreement with the T that you won't quit. That you will show up, on time and work on what T asks. (Oh, you know...you're human so don't worry if you're late once or twice) This shows you value your T's time and expertise, and that you have faith that sticking it out will get you progress in healing.

be well.

PS. You can always leave something on the desk or at the receptionist after a session, during holiday time, for instance... with no name so they can't return it and thus have no ethical qualms (No strings attached.)
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