You didn't do anything, hankster. My T did it in my session when she talked about reframing. I've been wondering all along if it was going to backfire on me--all the good feelings I felt about my T, and all the emails and holding her hand. I was afraid it was TOO good. I have to talk to her about it on Tuesday. Again, NO ONE here said anything that I didn't wonder about already.
I messed up because I can't stand it if my T did. I like her too much and I don't want her to have made mistakes with me. I trusted her and still do, but if SHE messed up and not me, then.......I don't know!