Ahhh yes, the user -self absorbed friend...been through that recently. It had been going on for awhile, but just hadn't hit me in the face until that "friend" was no where to be found while I was sick and unfortunately needy for a change. It hurt like hell, but I made decisions about it after mulling it over for a couple weeks and point blank I was only willing to give what I in return was given back and if the friendship ends because of it....that's now okay with me.

One sided friendships are not friendships to begin with, you will eventually get tired of it and put your foot down...you may not be ready yet and that's okay. It's a process and trust that if those friendships dissolve, you will ultimately be making room for other friendships to enter into your life.