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Old Oct 31, 2011, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by zooropa View Post
And after a while, when I feel so worn down from crying and so worthless and stinging from real or imagined rejection and abandonment, I start lashing out.
This is good awareness of this pattern. If you lash out you will frequently get a negative response back. What can you do about this lashing out?
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