I'm not 'tired' of your threads, Rainbow, and I do read them, though sometimes my ability to answer is 'exhausted' - as in I don't know what else to say that is relevant to your situation, because I don't really have any experience of your situation, and I've already posted what I can about it. I always try to answer peoples posts if I feel I contribute or be supportive. This thread, for example, started out with an interesting question - which I answered - but I don't think my answer turned out to be relevant to you, because the question you were asking wasn't really the question you were asking, was it? I've enjoyed reading this thread though, there have been some great responses. You do seem to have quite the knack for posting popular threads, Rainbow, so I think that shows that people aren't tired of them - even if some of us don't always feel there is anything else we can say or contribute on the subject ) - so please dont feel despondent. People care, Rainbow