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Originally Posted by CantExplain
That makes sense to you and me, but somehow Ts never see it like that. It's part of the way they protect themselves, I guess.
I'm sorry you see it like that, and I understand why you do. But look closer. There is no reason to WAIT for you to become more stable. That means you might not get better BY YOURSELF. It doesn't mean you can't be HELPED.
I was upset to read that you had been raped. That's something no one should have to suffer.
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she was saying that I'm not stable enough to do trauma work, and that maybe I will be in 6 mos or 6 years or never. My problem with that, and what I asked T at the time, is: where does that leave me? So, I can never talk about it? I Just have to carry it alone because I'm not "stable enough", whatever that is? And the way I am right now might be the most stable I ever am? UGH.
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