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Originally Posted by mcl6136
for me, it was intermittent positive reinforcement, followed by a dreadful session, that I found most painful with cold, distant T.
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You've often mentioned this cold and distance. That must be very painful.
I thought my T was cold and distant, but I now think:
1. It was hard for her to be warm and close when I kept pushing her away.
2. However warm and close she was, I couldn't have seen it because I was so paranoid.
We don't want to go back after a bad session and we don't want to go back after a good one. What is T to do?
