Afterrain, he's a player. if somebody calls me at 7pm, they do not get an answer, I am already busy, I have already planned my evening. this man is not treating you with respect. why are you falling for his lines? why are you believing him when everything so far has turned out the opposite of what he said, and of what you wanted? go get the morning after pill, hopefully it's not too late, and erase his number from your phone. or better yet, do like I do and program his name as "DO NOT ANSWER!!!" or "HANG UP IMMEDIATELY!" then just follow the instructions on your phone next time he calls or texts.