I haven't read all the responses here, Rainbow, but I can tell you - my T has made "mistakes" because he's human.

BUT, one thing that T told me that really stuck with me is that he is unable to promise me that he won't say or do something that would feel hurtful. This is a relationship, and it's bound to happen - but know that it is not out of maliciousness or ambivalence. And when it happens, it's an opportunity to work on our relationship.

Rainbow, I honestly don't feel that it's about mistakes or messing up with you and your T. It's movement. It's learning new processes. It's evolving. And you're resisting it, which is understandable and has meaning in itself.

(( HUGS ))