I agree that that quip and many others are just a bunch of hoohah made up by people who have nothing else to do. Empty sayings with no meaning, no sustinance.

Sorry, I'm new to this forum and proboblly giving a bad impression. But did any of those people have to live through what I did? Life is not fair and sometimes we are given more than we can take. Sorry, bad place. I'll be quiet now because now I'm angry at everything that he stole from me. 41yo and I'm just learning how to live - what living is. Sorry again.