To be honest, hankster, it's true that I don't always "get" your responses. In this case, I truly wanted you to know that I was sorry for YOUR experiences with your Mom so I posted that. I thought you weren't on target because I didn't have a Mom like that.

I can't answer everyone's questions; it's overwhelming but I know I didn't know how to answer you. Let me look again now: I have to send this and go back to your other post. But to answer you now, I don't get what you mean about the email once/week. I email my T as often as I want to. SHE used to email once/week. I don't know what you're asking me.

I try to answer my T in depth. I don't think it's a problem for me.