A guy who just wants to be friends doesn't bring the "I love you" into the picture unless he's playing with your emotions.

You needed to be wise enough to NOT have stayed over that night no matter what the excuse was & you needed to be WISE enough to have not done anything with him no matter what his lead was. You needed to keep your distance & observe him & his actions....you allowed yourself to get involved even though you thought you were taking it slow.....it's obvious by your actions & your thoughts....you WEREN'T.

You need to NOT get involved with this guy no matter what lines he gives you. It's obvious by his words & his actions that he's only after one thing & that is not to just be friends with you, but wants other benefits that aren't part of being friends. He got one girl pregnant & had a child......do you want to be the next? If not.....drop him & don't look back EVER. The bottom like is that you can choose to be wise with your life or not.....but when we aren't wise, there are normally regrets. Choose to be wise & NOT LISTEN TO YOUR EMOTIONS....then never lead to a wise decision without a good heavy dose of the rational mind's thinking & listening to their warnings.

You are seeing the red flags.....don't ignore them & for heaven sake...don't listen to his lines let alone fall for them the way you have. Get out now & dump him forever & don't even deal with the "I want to be friends" crap either. It's obvious that his idea of being a friend has NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING REAL FRIENDS.