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Nov 01, 2011, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by KathyM

(((Happycheeks)))

If your boyfriend doesn't need you, he doesn't need you. If you don't need him, you don't need him. Real love can't be bought or forced, and it's so much better when the feelings are mutual.

Take some time to grow and learn a little about what YOU need in order to make yourself "whole." Your boyfriend will never be able to provide that ingredient because it's your responsibility. The same goes for him - his peace of mind is not your responsibility - you've already got enough on your plate. What you give to each other, you should be able to give it freely.

My heart has been broken many times. As much as it hurts, these are some very important lessons in life. You can either sit in the mud and cry, or you can wash yourself off and get back out there learning about YOU and what YOU need in life.

Here......take my sleeve......and wipe off your nose - it's snot attractive.

but If I try to learn about me? I'm being selfish. It's not always about me.