I don't think it's selfish. It's important to know your own heart and what it needs in order to keep beating. It's possible you won't get the things you want in life, but you will get what you need. Keep your head up, give it your all, and give it your best.

Many years ago I remember asking my ex-husband if he needed me. The song "Two Out of Three Ain't Bad" by Meatloaf was playing on the radio at the time. My husband told me "No," and I was crushed. He thought I was asking too much of him because he said he loved and wanted me - but never needed me - so "two out of three aint bad." I was still crushed. I managed to put my heart back together.......and I'm SOOOOOOO thankful I'm no longer married to him!!!!

In case you're hungry, here's some Meatloaf...