That's one reason I refused to see a pdoc after my son was born... I didn't want them to say I had to be on meds, and force me to stop nursing my son. In retrospect if I'd been seen then I'd have got the correct diagnoses thirteen years earlier, but then the nursing of him seemed to keep me stable in ways that are hard to describe to a pdoc... particularly males, and particularly any doctor who thinks that symptoms can only be controlled by aggressive use of meds.

Stick to your guns. How old is your son now? Forgive me if you've said elsewhere and I missed it.