It sounds like you've already been where I'm at right now then. Yes, you've made the changes for YOU, and those around you have not wanted to accept them. I'm sorry for that. That's a fear of mine as well.

Oh, t told me the same thing...when I started enforcing, they would start pushing that much harder in a tug of war, or all out battle to get the "old kim" back, and that some simply would not accept the new kim.

So, forget my previous post, as you've been there/done that.

Just know that we're here to support you wherever this life leads you.

KD