I drove by my T's house once and I was afraid to tell her, but I knew I HAD to, so I did. She wasn't angry, was just curious about why I wanted to do it. Her house is on a dead-end street, out of the way, so I wouldn't do it again. I think T's understand why we do this sort of thing, and it really isn't stalking. Everyone is a little different, though, so it will be productive for your therapy to talk about it. I doubt very much that she will want to get rid of you!!! When I do things like that, my T has said it is "grist for the mill".