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Originally Posted by Joanna_says
I really can relate to how you feel. But I think you have been already brave to tell his son the truth. Telling your T will surely be more difficult but I do think it is better when you tell him instead of he maybe figuring it out on his own. I am sure his son will tell him and maybe your T can make the link after all.
If you are planning on giving him things that you have written to him anyway why don't you write this up as well and give him and tell him that the only way to let him know at the moment is through writing because it is too difficult to say for you.
I am sure he will be able to understand and appreciate you being open with him.
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Thank you for your reply... Yes, I thought that I could at least tell him next time that there is something I did that I am not so proud of and that I will eventually share it with him but for now, I have so much trouble putting it into words. And then maybe I will write it down or share it with him when I feel more comfortable and confident. I have so much trouble opening up and letting him see how vulnerable I really am...
I really envied the way his son spoke about my T, he seems to admire him a lot and look up to him. He told me to listen to his dad and to the trust him because he really cares about his work and his patients. I wish I could look up to my parents, but no...